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Relationships are essential. We can't get along without them. We need connections with other people.

Sometimes our relationships--the ones that started out with fluttering heartbeats and anticipation--can take a turn.

They can lose their spark.

Why? There are probably as many reasons as there are people. You're unique, and so is your significant other.

Third Party Help

When you need help putting the spark back into your relationship, sometimes a neutral third party is the answer. And that's where we come in.

As marriage coaches, our job is to help you clarify your relationship goals and chart a course to reach them. We offer you accountability as you do the work of strengthening your relationship.

And let's be honest. We're also here to call you on your stuff if you try to fool yourself along the way. We all need to be honest with ourselves if we want to build strong relationships. And sometimes, we need a third party--someone with nothing to gain-- to help us do that.

Biblical Foundation

We do everything from our foundation as committed, Bible trusting Christians. You won't hear us speaking  "church-ese," but we will talk about God. And scriptures. And prayer. And faith. With great pride and confidence and absolutely no apology.

If that's not your speed, we understand. But that's the way we operate. Our relationship with God helps shape our work with couples.

Learn How We Can Help

If you're a couple--whether dating, engaged, or married--and you'd like to talk with us to see if we might be able to help you, use the link below to schedule an exploratory conversation with us. Let's see if we're a good fit to work together. (We won't be mad if we're not! And we want you to find the right fit!)

BEFORE THE VOWS

A Fun and Revealing Bible-Centered Premarital Coaching Program

We Love Marriage!

According to Zola, a one-stop wedding planning site, wedding costs in the US in 2024 average around $33,000 so far--up a bit from the last two years. The number varies from state to state, of course, so if you're getting married in Rhode Island, your price tag may be closer to $49,207! 

Call us old school if you want, but we think that’s a LOT of money to spend on a wedding–even if you have it.

You see, a fancy wedding won’t help your marriage last longer. On the other hand, preparing for your marriage--really preparing--might. So while you’re spending on your wedding, remember to invest in your marriage. Invest time, energy, attention, and if necessary, money to prepare yourselves for a lifetime partnership. And for a marriage you’ll want to keep for life.

Premarital coaching can help.

Our Marriage Prep Program

Before The Vows is a 12-week Biblically-grounded premarital education and coaching program that helps engaged couples ...

  • Get to know one another more deeply,
  • Understand the principles of Biblical marriage, and
  • Explore and negotiate key elements of your future life as covenant partners.

The program consists of a pre-program assessment by Prepare-Enrich. Then we’ll get together for 12 weekly coaching sessions. These include discussion, games, quizzes, exercises, and media presentations to keep things interesting.

Homework assignments help you process and practice what you learn, and coaching helps you put your learning into action.

Downloadable Outline

You can download a pdf outline describing the program HERE.

What You’ll Get

  • A look at what the Bible says about marriage and healthy relationships
  • A look at the way each partner is “hardwired” and the potential effects of that hardwiring on the relationship
  • Discussion about individual gifts, talents, and life purpose
  • A safe place to explore assumptions and secrets that sabotage relationships
  • Critical issues every engaged couple should discuss
  • Clarification of the couple’s expectations for their family life after marriage
  • Tools the couple can use every day to build a marriage they’ll want to keep for life
  • Practical suggestions from Scripture for sidestepping common marital snags
  • Financial exercises to help you discuss your money management styles and expectations and to create a startup cash flow budget
  • A list of resources to help build and maintain a strong marriage

Follow-Up

At graduation, couples who complete the program can sign up for our optional NewlywedCheck In. This program gives you 4 check-ins and coaching sessions from us in the first 2 years of your marriage. We want to know how you’re doing as newlyweds. And we’ll offer additional coaching if you need help adjusting to the realities of married life.

Want To Know More?

You can learn more about us HERE. If you have questions about our programs, feel free to Contact Us. We’ll do our best to reply within 24 hours.

Building a vibrant, lasting marriage is worth the effort, and we’d love to help you build yours!

Wishing you years of joyful marriage,
Tillmon and LaCharla Figgs, Founders
Covenant Chasers LLC

Engaged To Be Married? We can help you prepare.

BEFORE THE VOWS

A Fun and Revealing Bible-Centered Premarital Coaching Program

According to the 2020 Brides American Wedding Study, the average cost of a wedding in 2022 is $28,964. The number of weddings is up because many couples delayed their 2021 weddings over concerns related to COVID-19.

Still, back in 2019--pre-pandemic--the average cost was an eye-popping $33,900!

We’re a bit old school, but we think that’s a LOT of money–even if you have it to spend!

A fancy wedding won’t help your marriage last longer, but preparing for marriage might! While you’re spending on the wedding, remember to invest in your marriage. Invest time, energy, attention, and if necessary, money to prepare yourselves for a lifetime partnership. And for a marriage you’ll want to keep for life.

Premarital coaching can help.

Our Marriage Prep Program

Before The Vows is a fun and revealing 12-week Biblically-grounded premarital education and coaching program. It helps engaged couples ...

  • Get to know one another more deeply,
  • Understand the principles of Biblical marriage, and
  • Explore and negotiate key elements of your future life as covenant partners.

The program consists of a pre-program assessment by Prepare-Enrich. Then we’ll get together for 12 weekly 90-minute sessions. These include discussion, games, quizzes, exercises, and media presentations to keep things interesting.

A few homework assignments help you process and practice what you learn, and coaching helps you put your learning into action.

Downloadable Outline

You can download a pdf outline describing the program HERE.

What You’ll Get

  • A look at what the Bible says about marriage and healthy relationships
  • A look at the way each partner is “hardwired” and potential effects on the relationship
  • Discussion of individual gifts, talents, and life purpose
  • A safe place to explore assumptions and secrets that sabotage relationships
  • Critical issues every engaged couple should discuss
  • Clarification of the couple’s expectations for their family life after marriage
  • Tools the couple can use every day to build a marriage they’ll want to keep for life
  • Practical suggestions from Scripture for sidestepping common marital snags
  • A list of resources to help build and maintain a strong marriage

Follow-Up

At graduation, couples who complete the program can sign up for our optional NewlywedCheck In. This program gives you 4 check-ins and coaching sessions from us in the first 2 years of your marriage. We want to know how you’re doing as newlyweds. And we’ll offer additional coaching if you need help adjusting to the realities of married life.

Want To Know More?

You can learn more about us HERE

Building a vibrant, lasting marriage is worth the effort, and we’d love to help you build yours!

Wishing you years of joyful marriage,

Tillmon and LaCharla Figgs, Founders
Covenant Chasers LLC